How do I get my best guy friend to have sex?
I am a 26 yr old married woman with a wonderful hubbie. We
have discussed the idea of opening our relationship, and
hubbie is really excited about the idea of seeing me with
another man. The problem is, I want to have sex with my best
guy friend. We have been friends since before I met my husband,
and we don't go for more than a day with out speaking. My husband
is supportive of the idea, but my friend is hesitant. When
I ho hummed around the subject, the friend gave me a lecture
stating that even though my hubbie said he was okay, that
he really wasn't. I have never approached this friend directly,
and in his lecture he used hypotheticals to explain that
he was afraid that if I did have sex with another guy, my hubbie
would flip and not let me be friends with the person. I think
he is afraid that the hubbie would put an end to OUR friendship.
The weird thing is, after our hypothetical conversation,
he started bringing up things that I did in the past sexually
in front of my husband trying to make him jealous. The hubbie
and I talk about everything, so it was no big deal. Is the
friend testing the waters? How do I aproach this with him,
or should I just go with the flow and see what happens?
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