Why I Am Here (on Adult FriendFinder...Durr :P)
Why did a seemly normal, all-american male youth from the
"Bible Belt" who's basically a boy scout
in most aspects of his life choose to visit and join a site
like this?
Because I'm only a boy scout in MOST aspects of my life....(muahaha)
I've tried other dating sites, most of the major e-brands,
but I've found that most the women on those sites and
the women I meet/been setup with around here in real life
seem to be looking for one of two things. Either (A) a smart,
totally out of oats (wild or not) kinda successful secure
in his job guy who's looking to get married, have a mess
of little 'uns and settle down. Or (B)an over 6ft 220+
lbs football player built wall of muscle and well hung strictly
for partying and sexual gratification.
I guess I came here because I wanted to see if I could meet
interesting, more open women about sexual fantasies/dating
and perhaps get to explore many of my non-traditional fantasies
(threesome, sex with an older woman, tecniques for sensual
massage etc.)
I'd have to say I've partially succeeded, I've
met many interesting women, and corresponded with them,
and in a handful of cases even met in person with a few potentials,
which I have never accomplished through any other dating
site. But, actually being able to find the RIGHT younger
women/Older women/couples to explore my goals has alluded
me. Most of the GREAT peeps I've met have been out-of-state,
which doesn't really suprise me. It seems like many
women in my area are kind of set in their ways, and have a narrow
definition of what a man is(and guys like me are perceived
generally as not tall enough or manly enough :P), but if
that kind of young woman, older woman, or couple exisits
in my area, I'll be most likely to find them right here.
So I'll keep looking, but also keep my fingers crossed
;)
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