Why do nice guys finish last?
Im an overweight(not grossly) man in my thirties and I am
wondering why do many women give slim and slender men chance
after chance after chance and yet people like myself never
get the first chance to show who the really are? I am a nice
person(i think at least) and i see women choose to stay with
men that cheat on them, lie to them constantly, and patronize
them. I try to fathom why but cannot. I remember my anthropology
teacher stating that women follow inate instincts for
preservation of the "Group" by choosing the strongest
and most fit as their mate, and I think that we as a species
must be able to overcome these primal urges to follow the
ALPHA male.
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