Sad isn't it....
You talk to someone... you think they're great...
So why not meet *and here it's all about sex* but even
in normal settings...
You have to prepare..
1. ALWAYS.. ALWAYS tell your friends where you'll
be and until when.
2. Limit the 1st date, to drinks or coffee in a public place.
(If goes well you can always meet again for longer somewhere
else)
3. Always set up a phone call after about 15 or 20 minutes
with your friend *no matter how silly that sounds* If you
don't like the person off the bat and are too NICE to
tell them you always have an 'out' by using some
excuse, no matter how lame, about how you have to help your
friend.(This gets you out of many a bad situations)
4. Going somewhere were people know you (ie. a bar you go
to once and awhile) will protect you because people know
you. If you have a problem pick the largest man you know to
help you out.
5. Always bring condoms.
6. Never let them pick you up, always, always, always meet
somewhere.
7. Background check if you have to... it's easy.. it
costs about 19.95 for a month (there's alot of psycho's
out there)
8. If it feels wrong... get out of there...
No one that's going to work is ever going to fault you
for a bad instinct.. and if if you were right, you'll
stay alive...
Which would you rather... be embarressed for freaking
over a stranger because you have a bad feeling,
or ending up in a ditch somewhere and your parents or loved
ones have to go to the morgue to identify your tattoo because
your face isn't there anymore?
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