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Spotting fakes

As a submissive that has been active in the community herself, I
can spot the wantabes. It does not take long when talking
to wantabe Doms/Dommes on line to figure out that they are
fake. Just because the put on a good scene in channel does
not mean they have experience, they usually have watched
a few BDSM pornos, read a few books ect.

No one should rush in to a relationship with out getting

to know someone first. I would say 90% of those on line are

there for entertainment. How many times have you heard

the line "my partner is vanilla"? It is best

to go to munches and join clubs and weed out the wanta bes

from those that others can vouch for them.
cyn