help me, im falling in love with a man from Adult FriendFinder, why is he still looking?
I am married and so is my lover. We have been together for
a couple months now, and it is absolutley amazing when we
are together, the best sex of my life. We talked in the beginning
about not looking for anyone else, and how we have never
cheated on our spouses, so we were comfortable with each
other sexually, and also with regards to safe sex. My lover wants to talk with me, and see me as often as we can,
when we are together, there is a connection, it is romantic,
passionate, and both feel wonderful, he tells me what a
great lover i am. I am falling in love with him, but that is
not the problem, i know i can continue our affair, with no
expectations, and be in love with him at the same time.
the problem is.....he is still on this system, visits about
once a week, and has a new add out, that i have seen. Why is
he looking? What about our aggreement for safe sex? Im so
confused, i guess he is a player, but i cant believe that
for some reason. I know i should walk away from him, but i
cant for some reason, becasue i know how it is when we are
together. I dont want to confront him, i will look to needy
and possessive. Do i have a right to feel confused? Do i have
a right to expect him to shut off his add? Does this mean he
is a lier, and is sleeping with many?? Help me.....i need some advice.
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