Realities of Fuck Buddies....
I have had a few fuck buddies in the past. Starting up with
the fuck buddies is always an interesting situation because
in my case, there was no oral agreement that we would give
each other booty calls, it eventually just became expected
that all our meetings would turn into sexual meetings.
And then one of them started treating me differently. Only
when we were together (no other time), he would wrap his
arm around me and, at least to me, mock the behaviour of a
boyfriend. He started complimenting me more and more,
and suddenly, we were going on 'dates' or to dinner
and ending up having sex.
This has happened a few times. So, my question/point of
this article, is, is it possible to have a healthy fuck buddy
relationship without it developing into anything further,
or is it impossible, is it inevitable for feelings to occur?
I believe that it is inevitable, wether or not both parties
make it known. Fuck buddies are a valuable resource, I have
experimented and perfected some of my sexual art in those
cases, but I do not wish a relationship.
Fuck buddy or one night stand? I still preffer the fuck buddy
thing and I try to distance myself when I am not with that
person. Good safe fun. If you are going into a fuck buddy
relationship, well, it is a relationship of sorts. Watch
yourself and the other person because you might end up with
or giving hurt feelings. And that can really spoil the mood.
Happy Fucking... ;)
Goldie
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