RE: Blk male looking for white female
I am known on Adult FriendFinder by manly36007. A short time ago, I wrote
a message in the advice column entitled BLK MALE LOOKING
FOR WHT FEMALE. I was in part venting because of the frustration
from not finding a white female. I was also looking for advice
on what I could to attract more white females. Some of you
gave me timely, sound advice which I appreciate very much.
Some of you though were very harsh, even calling me racist.
My remarks were in no way meant to be racist. But, if my desire
to experience the warm, sexual intimacy of a Caucasian
female-just once- makes me racist, then Im guilty as charged.
Some of you made a valid point that my rejections largely
stem from personal preference. I realize that many Caucasian
women simply prefer Caucasian men and I honestly respect
all peoples preferences and would never suggest that you
change your preferences haphazardly. I only give you this
point to consider: Our preferences are not always the best
thing for us. For example, we may prefer our favorite food
loaded with salt. We may realize that salt may not be the
best thing for our health, so we chose to use a different
seasoning such as pepper. All Im saying is sometimes its
beneficial to try something different.
Then there were those of you who are just uptight about
black and white being together. Get a grip ladies and gentlemen.
Its 2004 and there are more important things to be concerned
about other than interracial relationships.
Then there was one very lovely, intelligent person in
the Middle East who read the article and then e-mailed me
to talk to me personally before passing judgment. She took
it for what it was, me venting my frustration. I appreciate
her kindness and only wish I were closer to her to express
my gratitude for her kind words.
I would like to apologize to anyone whom I might have offended
and hope that all find what their looking for on AdultFriendFinder.
Im still looking and invite any Caucasian women in the
Tupelo, MS area to open their hearts and minds to the possibility
of an interracial relationship.
Manly36007
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