FRIENDS with Benefits
Ok, I am looking for a friend with benefits. It says so in
my profile. A friend to me is someone that wants to spend
time with you, hang out, cares about you. A friend with benefits
is someone who is your friend, who you happen to have sex
with. What is so hard to understand about that? If you tell
me you want the same thing, then mean it. I don't screw
around with just some John Doe you know. I have to have some
kind of feelings for the guy. Not necessarily romantic
feelings, but feelings just the same. I want to trust the
guy, care about him, and I want him to feel the same way as
I do. I don't expect him to call me his girlfriend and
I will not get jealous if he hooks up with some other chick.
I'm even there when he needs to talk about the chick
and how things are going. That's what friends do.
So if you want to be my friend and be privledged enough to
receive the benefits package, then act like it. Don't
not call me the next day. Don't act like you are busy
every time I ask if you want to do something. I'm not
the one-night stand kinda girl and I don't expect you
to be that way either if you hook up with me.
If you are looking for just sex, keep looking. I won't
miss you, trust me.
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